5 QUESTIONS TO ASK A CHINESE WOMAN

Updated August 11, 2020

In one of my previous articles, I discussed 5 Questions Chinese Women Will Ask Every Man. However, as a man, do you know what could be the top 5 questions to ask a Chinese woman?

*Chinese women are generally skinny, gorgeous, sexy and classy.*

Dating a Chinese woman is a quite different experience. It’s better to understand their mindsets and expectations. At the same time, you should also do your ground work to achieve your own goals, such as getting laid or finding a true relationship. If you are looking for a genuine relationship with Chinese/Asian girls, such as finding a Chinese girlfriend, you can just sign up on China Love Cupid (I wrote an article: How To Find A Chinese Girlfriend Online?).

In any case, if you are interested in dating a Chinese woman, it’s good to find certain basic information about her. Let me summarize the top 5 questions that you should clarify with a Chinese woman, preferably in the very early stage of your interaction.

I don’t necessarily mean that you should be asking them these 5 questions directly, however, it’s always good to know the answers to these freaking questions beforehand.

Answers to these questions will save you and her precious time, and hopefully, help you’ll get laid fast.

TOP 5 QUESTIONS TO ASK A CHINESE WOMAN?

#1 How Old Are You?

Yes, you should know her age!

A lot of things in a Chinese woman’s life revolve around her age. Those 25+ single women are desperately looking for a serious relationship. 30+ cougars could be a total waste of time.

Knowing age of a Chinese woman is really–really very important. Further, by knowing her age, you can ensure that she had attained the legal age of entering a sexual/romantic relationship.

However, it’s better to not ask her age directly. You can always throw indirect questions to clarify the age question.

For example, if she looks young, just ask her the one of the following questions:

Are you a student?
Are you a university student?
Are you an undergraduate student?

Generally, the freshmen (undergraduate year 1) students are 18; sophomore 19; junior 20; and senior 21.

How about the masters, PhD girls?

In China, the master degree courses are three years long (age 22-24). PhD 1^st year girls would be about 25. A girl just graduated with a PhD would be hitting 30, and according to the Chinese standards, she’d be hitting the wall!

Well, these indirect questions are certainly not the full-proof methods to find the age of a Chinese woman; however, you’ll get a close estimate.

If you still feel clueless, you can consider asking directly, however, only after exchanging 5-6 text messages, and depending on her response.

#2 Are You Single?

You wanna date her…right? You are not a beta male trying to just make friends (and supplement her life). Get to the point. You have to figure out if she is single or not!

How to find out if she is single?

Look for the obvious signals. For example, you can look into her WeChat moments. If she has shared the photos with babies, it’s quite likely that she is married.

If you are not sure, you should ask her a simple boyfriend question very clearly.

Btw, do you have a boyfriend or you are single?

If she is not single, just move on! There is nothing to do with her.

Point being, China is a huge country. The largest population ever! Why would you waste time with a woman who is married or has a boyfriend?

I have, of course, bedded wives and girlfriends in China, however, the success ratio is low. Not worth the time.

#3 Do You Have Siblings?

China followed a one-child policy for decades. Most of the kids born in 1980s, 1990s are the single child of their parents (and have no siblings).

If a girl is a single child of her parents, she’ll have tremendous pressure to find her Mr. Right. She may create lots of drama before opening her pants.

You should certainly not give up on them; however, it’d often take longer and sustained effort.

I personally found it annoying to bed such girls.

#4 Are You A Virgin?

Of course, you can’t ask this question directly, especially in the very beginning of your interaction.

However, you could just ask her if she sad a boyfriend before.

Those girls who never had any boyfriend are essentially virgin. This is likely to be the case with most of the undergraduate/university girls.

Casual sex is just not that common in China. A good number of girls will lose virginity to her longtime boyfriend.

“No previous boyfriend” generally implies virginity. The otherwise is not true though. In fact, in most of the Asian countries, it’s quite normal for a girl to spend 4-5 years with a guy without having carnal sex.

And it’s a pain to deal with a virgin girl, especially if she had a boyfriend for a few years, and she is still virgin. No one got lucky, why would you?

#5 Are You Working?

It has not been an inspiring experience to deal with the cougars, older and working women. They are past their peaks and rushing to find a rich guy to marry. These working/old women are extremely high-end gold diggers. Moreover, they tend to be highly insecure of being pumped and dumped as the clock is ticking faster than ever! I don’t really recommend to date an old woman.

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How about her age?

If she looks more mature, you can just ask:

How long have you been working?

If she says 6 years, she is about 28. Just add 22+6, assuming she completed her undergraduate education.

Unfortunately, if you are not looking for anything more than a casual fuck, these older women wouldn’t bring much to your life.

And why would you date older women in the very first place given that the world is SOOOOO big, with huge presence of relationship and sexual opportunities virtually everywhere?

My recommendation would be to date undergraduate girls. Although they are often inexperienced and you’ll need to train them, it’s worth the time and effort.

Bonus Questions?

Depending on the stage of your interaction with her, you may also ask the following questions:

Do you have foreign friends?
Did you have a foreign boyfriend before?
Do you like going to clubs/bars?

Recap

In order to get laid in China, or anywhere else, you need to be up front about your goals. What’s the point to hang out with a married woman? Why would you date an old woman, or the gold diggers? Learn the rules and play better.