Updated August 4, 2020
Just a few days ago, I wrote a post about How To Identify A Chinese Gold Digger. In another post, I told you about enslavement and peacefully breaking up with an Asian girl. Some of my readers felt that I was misogynist and xenophobic. No, I’m certainly not! I’m not against any gender or race. I support social harmony, peace and love. In fact, it’d be nice if both men and women understood each other well (for a genuine relationship in China, Sign Up for free: China Love Cupid). However, if you have taken a red pill, you’ll know that the life doesn’t go on ideal principles. There are tons of unexpected shit in our lives. In particular, if you are looking for getting laid in the Asian countries, you are inevitably going to bump into those materialist gold diggers, every once in a while!
Now let me give you the examples to demonstrate the disgusting gold digging in China. You will realize why it’s so difficult for an average Chinese dude to find a girlfriend. In fact, getting laid is often super expensive for them. In this post, I will give you four examples about gold digging in China.
Three examples are from my female acquaintances, who intend to screw men up, someday. In addition, one example is about a guy, who is willing to screw up himself. Hopefully, in near future, you can easily identify the Chinese gold diggers. 🙂
I will directly give you screenshots of WeChat text messages that we exchanged a while ago. Take your time to go through them. Next time when you are going on a date with a Chinese girl, keep those things in mind. Don’t let someone screw you up! Don’t be a fucking beta.
Chinese Gold Digger: Example 1
Background
I met this girl about a year ago in China. She was, 21, a final year undergraduate student in a prestigious Chinese university. She was single. I invited her for a date and it turned out that she liked a soldier, and seemed serious about him. I moved on. I contacted her a few days ago (after 1+ year). She has already graduated and currently doing an internship. It turned out the she is still single and claimed to have broken up with the “soldier” (although they were never in a relationship in the first place). In fact, she never had a boyfriend (July 2020) and is still virgin (and, in all likelihood, helping herself).
Why did she break up? Because the guy couldn’t afford to buy a house. Her family helped breaking up the relationship. Moreover, now she is not looking for a boyfriend; she is looking for a husband. Betas, rest in peace!
Chinese Gold Digger: Example 2
Background
I met her about a year ago at Family Mart (Quan Jia), a local supermarket. We had a very brief interaction and got connected on WeChat. She was from Xuzhou (Jiangsu), travelling to my city. She told me that in a few months, she will be an undergraduate year 1 (age 18+) student in my city.
A few days back, I got in touch with her. She is still single and I suggested a meet up. However, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, she is currently in her hometown, and would return to university (in my city) in a month or so. Although she claimed to have a boyfriend before, she is also a virgin. She will only accept sex after marriage (we had some naughty talks).
Anyways, during our recent text interaction, she asked me a lot of personal questions, including my salary. Of course, during the weird interview session, I got pissed off, and finally she asked me to not contact her again (call me a loser). Actually, I am quite an experienced veteran; however, these women would still find ways to piss me off. 🙂
Imagine, a 20 year old girl is such a great gold digger. What will happen once she is 25? Hell, 28? Welcome to Asia!
Pro tip: if you sense a gold digger, reply slowly. No need to respond fast, as you might be dealing with a potential whore! A little mistake and you will be burned sown.
Chinese Gold Digger: Example 3
Background
I messaged screenshots of Example 1 to another Chinese girl as I wanted to confirm if that’s indeed the case (aka a guy must buy a mouse in order to get married). I have known this girl for the past few months. She is a first year masters student in Jiangsu province. Moreover, she already has a boyfriend.
Basically, she confirmed that the guy must buy the house before getting married. She did suggest that both she and her bf may share the housing expenses (although she hadn’t planned much about it yet).
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Chinese Gold Digger: Example 4
Background
After interacting with the aforementioned three girls, I got in touch with a guy. He is about to graduate with a PhD in Hunan province. Obviously, he doesn’t have a job. No girlfriend. I asked him about the same gold digging situation in China. We don’t know each other well and I expected a fair opinion of him. So I texted him the same screenshot in example 1.
He also confirmed the same.
Basically, finding a relationship is a distant dream for an ordinary Chinese guy. If he is from a poor family, he’ll struggle to get laid in China. In all likelihood, he’ll find a girl and she will ensure he marries her. The guy will most likely bang only one woman in his whole life. With all certainty, he’ll pay housing loans for next 30 years. By the time he realizes mistakes, he is already screwed up. In terms of dating and relationship, such men are largely inexperienced and naïve.
Well, the whole concept of men-women equality looks like a theoretical idea. Women, all the time, try to find a rich guy, or at least better than them. Hence, the inequality continues (I mean the gold digging is also a reason behind the men-women social inequality).
I wonder what these gold diggers would offer men apart from their overpriced pussies? Not to mention, the beauty degrades way too fast.
Next time you are dealing with a pricy bed trophy, you’d better not screw up.
That’s why when you meet such gold diggers, the first thing you should ensure is to bang her properly. They love those extra pounds and big size. Don’t screw up by getting angry or something. I have lost girls time and again by getting angry (as in the example 2 text). Keep your mouth shut until you have banged her nicely. These asses would pursue you more if you bang them well. Then let her know that you are not up for a very serious relationship (only short term in China/no plan to buy house), and she will move on.
Thoughts?
hope you get aids one day, the gold diggers too
I see you are from philippines. “The Philippines has the fastest-growing HIV infection rate in the Asia-Pacific region.”
you just point out the most common but sad situation an ordianry Chinese man has to face, second generation of riches can easily date with a lot of so called gold-digging girls ,break the melon and ditch them , average or poor- looking and income guys end up marrying them with the full financial support of their family which will help to buy the house and car for marraige, even it costs years of savings of parents
Exactly. Sometime back, I read an article that about 80% of desirable women date top 20% of men. That’s like, these 20% mean face virtually no competition for getting sex/relationship. However, the rest of the 80% men end up competing for the 20% of not-so-desirable women. This whole RS dynamics suck, especially if you are not a man in the top 20%.
hello, Im a chinese and my english is pool, I read your post about the Gold Digger. Can you tell me what “bang her” means.
“An act or instance of having sex.” – Bing dictionary 🙂
moral traditions vary vastly from east to west. pre marital sex may be acceptable in the west. but it is frown upon in asian cultures. it is also wrong to label the women gold diggers. in china dowry is given from husband to wife. in india women give the dowry to men. culture & traditions are different in every country.
Well, women try to screw the “suitable men” all the time. That’s now the new normal to our cultures. One day these betas would realize their mistakes, and the divorce follows. No wonder, the divorce rates are going higher, even in the traditional Asian societies. Even then, men risk losing 50% of high earned wealth.
It does sound rude to ask your salary. Money and house should be both responsibilities.
But here’s a little perspective from an asian woman. Women have a risk of getting pregnant out of marriage. When this happens there’s no law to protect her and her child. She is in the worst-case scenario, needs to support her child alone. That’s why its better to have sex only after marriage.
According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 19.7 million children, more than 1 in 4, live without a father in the home. The details of the risks: https://cdn2.hubspot.net/hubfs/135704/NFIFatherAbsenceInfoGraphic071118.pdf
Well, we never meant not to care about the kids, and family. However, starting a family ought to be the responsibility of both man and woman.
I discussed average salaries, and housing prices in other posts. It’s fair to say that most of the men, particularly in the Asian countries, tend to be not financially well-off (China is much better). I find it extremely horrible that women are manipulating men to buy houses (and pay monthly installments for the next 30 years, or so). What an institutional exploitation!
I think there was a mismatch of wants here, as well as a possible culture clash.
You seem to be looking for casual, no-strings-attached sex while the majority of the ladies you are chasing appear to be wanting something different, a spouse. That is, they are seeking a long-term relationship leading eventually to marriage while that is the furthest thing on your mind. That combined with a culture where premarital sex is frowned upon and where dating is all about being finding a husband and not just playing around.
These women are merely seeking what females everywhere are seeking: a good man, someone who can provide for his family by having a stable job that pays a good wage and a home in which to safely bring up a children.
Overall I think your use of the term ‘gold digger’ something of a misnomer and my advice to you would be to not seek casual sex on a normal dating website but use a website that specialises in casual hookups.
You get the point as well, dad!
These “providers” (in your words “…a good man, someone who can provide for his family by having a stable job…” are (in)famously known as the beta males. A one-minute silence
Basically, it looks almost certain that the men would invariably end up paying for sex, sometime in cash, sometime in kind, sometimes buying a house, car…
A man living in a city of poor sex ratio (with weak power/status/game) would virtually screw up his life by falling into the trap.
You know what, I’m not against prostitution. Just wish to know the price up front. *Ahem*
U shu go to below :
A)SGP one of the most westernised nation in Asia.
B)HKG a open country in mos thing.Sori,now had becamed one of the city in PRC.
Learn basic communication skills, son!
Guys, I went to China in 2017, I know a lot of Chinese girls. I know a Chinese woman who owns a bunch of Chinese massage shops. I have met and become friends on WeChat with most of her employees past and present. They are actually very respectful of themselves. They are generally not going to just hop in the sack with anyone. Normally they don’t do all the things they are stigmatized to have done. In the massage shops. In fact these women are normally from poor or farming communities. Some haven’t completed mor then the 5th or 6th grade in primary school. I know one girl who only completed the second grade. Why do they work Chinese massage in the U.S.? Well most of them are close to or over 50 years old. Some are divorced and have not remarried. They have different customs in China than we do, when a Chinese man gets a girlfriend there is a known expectation of the boys mother to take the girl to the shopping mall and give her ¥20,000 to spend. That’s about $3000 usd. If they get engaged, the same thing happens, if they get married the same thing happens and the boys parents buy the couple a house and a new car for each of the couple. That is their culture. The parents pay for everything for the boy and basically buy his wife for him. They give money as gifts in red envelopes. The parents of the boy give money to the bride, the parents of the bride give money to the boy. Then the boy is expected to give the money to the bride at the ceremony. The guy is basically broke all the time.
He is expected to work long hours, actually they both are, usually 10-12 hours a day 7 days a week. Not a lot of time for hanky pan key if you know what I mean. The girl does want a child and now 2 or more if they have the money to afford it. Women are graced to retire at age 50 and usually get a lifetime government retirement of ¥2000 a month today that is worth $285 a month. It’s not a lot of money compared to our standards. If the girls come to America and work 1 year in Chinese massage doing 4 to 5 massages a day, they can return to China and buy a home and retire permanently and not struggle to survive.
If they have a boy they may end up poor, if they have a girl, the girl is usually set for life because of a husband and his parents. The irony is all the family’s want a boy so the husbands family name carries on. If either goes to college, their parents are expected to pay their college tuition. They usually don’t marry befor age 25, and when they marry the pretty much get the wife pregnant immediately. If you meet a 50 year old Chinese woman, she will usually have a 25 year old son or daughter. So if you want to know their age without asking them directly ask them if they have a son or daughter then ask how old the son or daughter is. If they have an 18 year old child add25 to the child’s age and and that’s who old the woman is. They usually marry in a couple when the man is 1 to two years older then the woman. Men retire at 65 like we used to do. I don’t know what there retirement income it, I suspect it’s higher than the woman’s by far because it’s expected that he takes care of her. So they come to America to make their lives better in China normally. Some what a green card so they can go back to China and come back. Usually if they are able to come to the U.S. if they didn’t obtain a green card, they wil return to China without a way to return to the auS. There is a long passport/visa waiting process to in China because of the number of people in China wanting to come to the U.S.usually about 10 years. They ant money but usually aren’t looking to get laid or get paid money for sex. In fact the will normally turn it down. They are technically preyed upon by men and police for a happy ending or sex. The police want to arrest them and confiscate any money the find in the shop. Both men and police try shoving wads of money into their hands for a happy ending or sex. If are worse down and pushed easy wads of cash enough times after a while you will probably give in and take the money. If it’s a police officer, as soon as they take the money, they are arrested and charged with prostitution. If it’s just a man, he may get a happy ending. That’s actually an assault on the girl making her do something she can be arrested for by coercion. Another form of assault that happens is the men will grab the girls from behind and grab end feel their breasts and may also put their hands between their legs. Obviously they don’t want any of this. If a guy hands they girl $5000us or more in cash, to her this may feel like a proposal to be a boyfriend to marry. They may be happy to have sex with you and want you. They believe you have money and you want a relationship with them that will last a lifetime. They are high maintenance! If you offend her, use her or cheat on her you will release a world wind of anger on yourself, also if you make her lose face by revealing something about her to someone else that makes her look bad and it gets back to her, expect the same anger and in both cases expect her to never talk to you again. Asking for forgiveness won’t help you. Also another reason a Chinese girl doesn’t want to give a man a happy ending or have sex with you even for money is they may have applied for a a green card. If they are arrested for prostitution by massage is if they do and get arrested for a prostitution by massage, when they go for their green card interview, their application for a green card will be denied.
If you are looking to get laid, you would do better to try and find a Japanese girl.
Well, if you are into Asian chicks, head to South East Asia (exclude Singapore unless you are a white or fu*ing rich). Vietnam is still my favorite. Just get a US $1,000/month income in HCMC and you’ll be like a lion in the jungle. China is a good place to get a LTR or marriage stuff. Just not good for sexpats. China is just not for causal things (unless you are okay with meeting professionals). China is a country of contrasts. On one hand, China has more billionaires than USA and India combined, on the other hand, women here still get offended if you ask them if single or not. I am not talking about women from countryside. Even the richest of the rich want to take things slow. Often, they’ll insist on bringing friends on dates. Point being, women here are simultaneously materialistic and naïve, and run their agenda to trap you into a LTR. China is never a place to have tons of unpaid-ONS. At least not in 2021. No baby!